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How do I choose between two children?
The daughter that I'm parenting is 2 years old. The son that I placed for adoption is 8 years old. He wasn't really happy with Kitten's arrival and has been jealous of the attention I give to Kitten. I got an email from Son's mom inviting me to his soccer game 9 days from now but specifically requesting that I leave Kitten at home or not come at all. I'm really angry about being put in this position. Kitten is a toddler who's used to being with mommy, not a pet to be just left at home. Kitten is rarely away from me. She nursed until she was 18 months old. I'm a nanny and she even comes to work with me. Kitten's not nursing anymore at all and I might be able to convince a friend to watch her for a few hours so I'll try ...Click here to read more »
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