Comments for cindypsbm http://openadoptionsupport.com/cindypsbm Just another Open Adoption Support weblog Fri, 01 Jan 2010 01:09:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 Comment on sanity by cindy http://openadoptionsupport.com/cindypsbm/2009/06/16/hello-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3 cindy Fri, 01 Jan 2010 01:09:46 +0000 #comment-3 Thanks for responding... I did not expect anyone to comment. I have a sort of peace with my decision in knowing it can't be reversed and I wouldn't try too. That does not mean I will stop complaining about the injustice I feel was done to me as a person due to the fact I am a first mom. I will NEVER stop being mad about this sanity business. I feel it is my right to be mad for as long as I want to me. You are very kind to try and consol me. I am not counting on my son's adoptive parents ever treating me as I hoped they would. It's very good of you to treat your daughters first mom so kindly, but I believe you are a rarity. You opinion is not common. Thanks for responding… I did not expect anyone to comment.

I have a sort of peace with my decision in knowing it can’t be reversed and I wouldn’t try too.

That does not mean I will stop complaining about the injustice I feel was done to me as a person due to the fact I am a first mom.

I will NEVER stop being mad about this sanity business.
I feel it is my right to be mad for as long as I want to me.

You are very kind to try and consol me.
I am not counting on my son’s adoptive parents ever treating me as I hoped they would.

It’s very good of you to treat your daughters first mom so kindly, but I believe you are a rarity. You opinion is not common.

]]> Comment on sanity by Sally http://openadoptionsupport.com/cindypsbm/2009/06/16/hello-world/comment-page-1/#comment-2 Sally Thu, 31 Dec 2009 19:18:13 +0000 #comment-2 I know this was posted back in June, but I felt compelled to respond. I am an adoptive mom and in no way define sanity with first mom's. I can not imagine the pain that first mom's go thru when making an adoption plan for their children and then having to always look back at what could have been. I do know that I have made decisions based on what my circumstances were at the time and later think to myself "why did I do that". BIG Decisions that I can not take back and that have truly affected who I am. I agree with you that adoptive parents seem to be hard on the first families and vice versa. I hope and pray with all my heart that I personally am respectful of my daughter's first family. I do what is comfortable and best for her and always with respect to her first mom's family. It disappoints me tremendously that all families involved, in adoption, do not practice such respect. I believe that it is in her best interest to always put her first when it comes to decisions about her first family. I also hope that if my daughter's first mom could be a fly on the wall she would be proud of the mom I am. I don't know if any of this will help, but I pray your son's adoptive family learns what they need to do and that you can find peace with your decision. I know this was posted back in June, but I felt compelled to respond. I am an adoptive mom and in no way define sanity with first mom’s. I can not imagine the pain that first mom’s go thru when making an adoption plan for their children and then having to always look back at what could have been. I do know that I have made decisions based on what my circumstances were at the time and later think to myself “why did I do that”. BIG Decisions that I can not take back and that have truly affected who I am. I agree with you that adoptive parents seem to be hard on the first families and vice versa. I hope and pray with all my heart that I personally am respectful of my daughter’s first family. I do what is comfortable and best for her and always with respect to her first mom’s family. It disappoints me tremendously that all families involved, in adoption, do not practice such respect. I believe that it is in her best interest to always put her first when it comes to decisions about her first family. I also hope that if my daughter’s first mom could be a fly on the wall she would be proud of the mom I am. I don’t know if any of this will help, but I pray your son’s adoptive family learns what they need to do and that you can find peace with your decision.

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