Tag archives for after placement

How do I deal with too many visits?

I am really struggling with our open adoption and I am trying sooo hard to be the supportive adoptive mother to both my daughter, Laura, and the first mom, Nicole. My daughter is now 6 months old and we have already had 5 visits from Nicole. Yes, I understand she wants to see her because [...]

Should I make my daughter come with me to visit her placed sibling?

I don’t know if the Baby’s parents read here.  They might.   (Hi J!)  She reads my blog so she probably already knows I’m a confused mess so here goes.
We’ve been invited to “The Baby’s” first birthday party.  FDad may or may not come depending on his work schedule.  I am probaby going…even though it’s going [...]