Tag archives for grief

How do I deal with how much this hurts?

I have a little boy 17 months old and I also just gave four days ago to a beautiful baby boy who I have
given up for adoption to a wonderful family and the adoption is open and we are like family now as well. We talk everyday and though we are out of the hospital [...]

Grieving as a grandmother, where can I find help?

My daughter just released her son for adoption yesterday.  I am so worried that she was misled by the agency and will have serious regrets.  I know I do, but I am trying hard to support her.  Where can I find the help that she and I both need?

my daughter birthmom is having serious grief issues, but I don’t know how much I can help?

hello our daughter will be 5 soon, and her birth aunt (sister of birthmom) emailed me today telling me that J. is having a really hard time about reliquishment and thought I would want toknow. J. has had a really chaoitic life, with a history of abuse, and I often wondered how much she had [...]

Should I expect my adopted child to grieve his adoption?

Hi, I am new to this, but I have had a nagging question after reading a lot of information on the internet about adult adoptees and their experiences. My adopted child is still just a baby and we have an open adoption, so I’m wondering…what should I expect to deal with as he grows and [...]

Openness and “primal wound”?

Does ’open adoption’ solve the problem of the so-called ’primal wound’?