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How can I get the adoptive parents to stretch their boundaries?

I was wondering how you deal with boundaries and respect in your doption? I am a birth mother, just two months into the adoption. While I was pregnant and going through the adoption process I was treated pretty nicely, everyone bent over backwards to make me happy. Now that it’s done, I’ve experienced a [...]

When the adoption isn’t a secret, how do you tell people you don’t want to share?

Everyone who knows about the adoption (especially my parents and siblings, my friends to a lesser extent) asks me about it.  Have I heard from the baby’s parents lately?  Do I have any new pictures to show them?  Will I have another visit soon?
If I haven’t gotten pictures, it reminds me that I haven’t gotten [...]